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Welcome to my sanctuary. This is a place for me to share the ups and downs of my life as a mother, woman, friend, and subbie. To revel in the triumphs and work through the difficult parts, but to always be me...the good...the bad...and the playful.

Perception



Perception is a funny thing, it can work for you or it can work against.  It’s all in how you choose to look at things.  I’ve been stung by my own perception more times than I would care to count.  But each time reminds me that I need to change my outlook.  No one is responsible for how I perceive things but me.  If I choose to see something negative then that’s my choice to do so.  However, I can also choose to see the positive in things as well.

There are times when it’s difficult to see things positively.  There are so many ways to take things negatively, but the odd thing is that there is just as many positive ways to look at things as well.  I find that when I find myself looking at something negatively that I need to take a step back and try to see if from a different angle.  Sometimes it takes longer to get into a positive mindset about a situation, but it is possible.

It’s a struggle to change your perception on things.   Sometimes even a minute to minute battle.  But with the will and desire to change that perception, it is possible.

1 comments:

alex said...

That is the thing of it - everyone's perception of any one thing, can be totally different, regardless of the facts. That can even be said in regards to me. Sometimes - rather than explaining and making it all worse... Sir tells me to just zip my lip - or fingers and let it pass - because this too shall pass.

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